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Let Me Not Miss This Day...

3/16/2022

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I'm writing this on Tuesday, March 8th and this is what the beach was like on this beautiful morning… sunny, warm, blue sky with a dappling of puffy clouds, children squealing with delight as they race into the waves, dogs bounding happily into the whitecaps chasing balls, people biking, walking, sitting or lying on their towels… there's a sense of ease and delight in this space.  Yesterday was supposed to be our last nice day before we head back home - the rains were supposed to begin today, but they didn't!  Somehow we were granted one more bonus day of natural gorgeousness and blissfully I had absolutely nothing on my schedule til this evening!  
 
So as I reflected on my intention for the day, what came to me was “Let me not miss this day.”  Too many times I've missed a day - swept up in fear, worry, regret or anticipation.  Anything that carries me into the future, into the past, or into another part of the world takes me away from fully being right here, right now.  And so, in an effort to slow the ticking of time, I intend to not miss this day.  
 
Tears came as I felt the sadness of leaving which is coming too soon.  Even though it's been a long time already and even though there are good reasons to want to get back home, I am already mourning the transition that is coming.  I'm already packing in my mind, beginning the drive, anticipating the travel…  but that's not here.  
 
Again, I pause and catch myself.  I don't want to miss this day, so I'll remember that I am still here right now.  We don't leave for another 5 days. I have time.  It just doesn't feel like it.  But, I do.  There is time to slow down.  To breathe in the salt air. To soak in the sun.  To love the feeling of soft sand on my bare feet.  To smile at the simple joy all around me on the beach.  To enjoy one more dinner with my love (in fact, the restaurant that I had tried to call several times to make a reservation just called me back because they had missed my calls!  What!?  Who does that??  We have a lovely waterfront dinner planned for this evening!  That was bonus!!) 
 
I am savoring the sweetness of this day, even though I am also doing laundry and dishes.  Those tasks don't take away from the time at the pool or the refreshing breeze off the ocean.  As I choose to sit and meditate and write, I am taking in the golf course out my window, the tropical-themed bedspread I am sitting upon.  I am drinking in this space as if I could carry it home with me somehow.  Longing for my skin to be able to absorb enough warmth to hold me until Spring finally arrives up North, even though I know that's not possible.  
 
Returning to here.  Now.  This moment.  This breath.  Don't let me miss this day thinking ahead to North.  Right now I am still here in the South.  How easy it is to drift away before I've even had a chance to catch myself.  
 
Wishing you a day that you too can savor and be present with.  Give yourself to it, and allow it to fill you.  What gifts does it offer?  What sweetness?  Please, don't miss this day.  
 
This week's meditation is Let Me Not Miss This Day, and it includes a reading of “This Pure, Precious Moment” from 111 Invitations: Step into the Full Richness of Life.  May it support you in coming into presence for a few minutes this day. 
 
Seeking your input!  Blogging A-to-Z Challenge: Looking ahead to April, I think I am going to take on the Blogging A to Z Challenge (which I'm still figuring out)!  What that means is that every day except Sundays, I will post a theme-related blog based on the letter of the day. Feels like a fun way to stretch my writing!  
 
The theme I'm considering is inspired by Kate Bowler’s Everything Happens for a Reason and Other Lies I’ve Loved.    I thought it might be fun to live into some questions – to look at our conditioning, the stories and beliefs we’ve bought into and why we believe these things.  Who taught us to believe this, where and when did we pick up this idea, and what might we choose instead?  
 
So, what’s the theme? Conditioning? Discernment?  Breaking down beliefs?  I’m not sure, but I think this could be a good one for me given the way I tend to think in questions more than answers!  What do you think?  What questions do you have that I might explore? What conditioning are you curious about?  What belief, cultural narrative, or platitude drives you crazy?  Send me a note and let me know, please!  I'll need some help coming up with something for every letter!  
 
The blogs will be posted on here on this blog and will only be emailed to people who choose to receive them (you can email me to let me know if you'd like to be added to this list).    

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Deborah
3/17/2022 11:47:26 am

I'm usually not running to appointments, but I spend a ridiculous amount of time cramming information into my head. I think it's habitual and a way of filling my time as I continue to embrace retirement and aging.

When Barb's emails arrive, I shuffle through them with great appreciation for her connections and beautiful writing style. However, I never get to the meditations. "Got to go", I think, "I'll do the meditation later". Today when I opened the email, all I saw was the butterfly who seemed to beckon me to follow her, and I did. I followed her right into the meditation called, "Forgetting How to Hurry". This was a blessing for me, since I was able to quiet my thoughts before receiving the written message.

I live in Florida where the sun shines daily and temperatures are usually mild. Still I have spent my life rushing through days and not appreciating the beauty. I was reminded today to "...kneel down in the grass", and to pay attention. I was also reminded to get to know my neighbors with kindness and appreciation. Thank you, Barb Klein, for the many lessons you have brought my way.

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Barb
3/21/2022 01:36:21 pm

Deborah, Thank you for taking the time to slow down and give yourself the gift of your own time. Thank you for thoughtfully taking in my offering and reflecting on it and for sharing your precious insights here. I am grateful for your presence.

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